Can I Have A Do-Over?
OK… humor me… go over this past fucking asshole of a week with me, mkey?
- On Monday after hurrying The Kid to school (pre/post school daycare closed) I got stuck in a traffic jam… on the very morning my new temp was starting at the secretariat. I arrived an hour late…
- When putting my handbag away in my locker *SNAP* my bra strap broke… As I had NO time to get out to the store and get myself a new bra and/or straps, I stapled my bra strap back together… Yeah, that would be with the office stapler…
- That very night a match I had júst put out flipped out of my fingers and dropped on my beautiful red couch… which now has a black burn spot on there…
- On Tuesdayevening The Kid banged his elbow into my nose… I had my nose X-rayed and turns out that I have a slight fracture on the top of my nosebridge. It fucking hurts like hell!
- The Guy has been so excruciatingly busy that, aside from the fact that I truly feel for him, we have not been able to talk to eachother properly all week. I miss him like crazy.

- I spent most of my Thursday damage controlling the shit that BB left behind… as there is even more shit drifting to the surface than I could’ve evah imagined
- I let a dinner plate slip in the kitchen… I now only have 4 left, which means that right now… I can’t even have The Mom, The Sis and The BIL over for dinner…
- I was in a collision in traffic on Fridayafternoon that is gonna cost me dearly. Cuz even though the chick in front of me slammed on the breaks, in Dutchyland, traffic coming up from behind is always in the wrong… So I am paying for all damages…
- I am hurting all over, especially my shoulders and back, cuz I twisted some muscles bracing for impact…
- I spent the half hour after that in the pooring rain checking damages on both cars and filling in insurance forms
- After picking up The Kid from The Mom, and having dinner there, I dropped my brandnew Nokia E71 on the street… The screen is cracked. I hope to God that the insurance I got for it will pay for the damages as I can’t afford to have it fixed myself…
Yes, I know… it’s all material stuff… and there’s so much more important stuff… I know… Really I do… But right now I can’t afford any of this shit… And it was just too much for me this week…
I am locking myself in the house for the weekend, with The Kid. I feel like curling up in fetal position and just bawling my eyes out… SRSLY, I am not shitting you… I just don’t wanna deal with this week anymore…
And I want The Guy…
Here! NOW! So I can bury myself in his embrace… and just “be”





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Yikes, now that was one hell of a week! I’m so sorry all these things happened to you. I’m sending hugs your way and positive vibes for this coming week to be 100% better!
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I am so glad we got chance to have a jolly good chat last night – it was GREAT to catch up and share our grumbles, although you are definitely winning right now! Remember what I said about Karma? Buy that lotto ticket!
Big hugs babe xxx
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Jen: Thanks babe, I could do with sommathat… I am SO done with it all…
Pen: Thanks for listening on chat, babe… I really needed that…
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You endured hell week, now just veg with The Kid and try to relax. Next week will have to be better!
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Awww! :( Hope next week is better for you. x
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As someone said above you survived. Next week will be much better I’m sure. Sending loads of well-wishes your way.
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That was a horrid week. Here’s to a restful, stress reducing weekend.
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*sigh* I wish you didn’t have such a shiteous week! I know it sucks. I’m Cjust thankful that you weren’t seriously injured in the car wreck. Cars are replaceable. Phones are replaceable. Bras are replaceable. Plates are replaceable. You, can never be replaced! Things will get better. I tell myself that every single morning that I wake up and before I go to bed and I feel it happening (It hasn’t yet, but I know it will). In the meantime…smile, have a bottle of wine and sniff the guy’s shirts!! MUAH!
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Shit, that’s a crappy week! Why didn’t you lock yourself in the house and not touch anything after Tuesday? The money you would’ve lost from not going to work would probably have been less than everything else. Yeah, not helping, I know *hugs*
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Geeky Tai-Tai: sticking to the couch as much as I can!
Agent Elle: I hope so too!
Lady Jaye: Thanks Hon!
ThatBitchyChick: You KNOW the shirts are on my lap while on the couch all day right? Heh…
Rache: Umm yeah, thanks LOL
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I think the locusts will be arriving next week. Should I put your order on hold?
Better luck w/next week.
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Sorry that you had such a rotten week. I hope that your weekend gets much better.
Thank you so much for the scarf! It is absolutely beautiful and it made my week. Thank you :)
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WOW, and I thought I HAD a bad week.
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Marty: Nah… bring it on. Might as well take it in my bad luck stride as long as I am on that..
Lisa: Thanks Hon, nothing compared to the stuff you go through, I’ll be ok. And I am SO happy you received the scarf! Enjoy!!!
Julie: In that case I hope your next week is a better one too!
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I think a do-over is in order. With strong drink.
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Oh, Dutchy, I’m sorry. That sucks. A friend of mine told me when you are having a day (or week) like that, you need to stop and take a deep breath (or 10 or whatever you need) because it helps to break of the bad juju that’s going on or something like that. It really works. Try it if there’s a next time.
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You can buy straps independent of the bra? They aren’t attached all the time?
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Shelli: Yeah, that’s what I am trying to do now. I locked me and The Kid in the house to just relax and take a breather.
Delmer: Umm… yeah you can and nope, not on all bras… Makes me wonder what the women you recently dated were wearing? Don’t you pay attention, Hon?
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witchypoo: Sorry, I missed ya there (and you are the first winner of the commentluv contest! How could I have missed you!) Yeah, I think I DO deserve that do-over and working on the
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I’m so sorry you had such a wretched week. If I were there I’d hug you and cry with you.
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gingermagnolia: Well, I haven’t had a good cry YET… but I am sure that’s coming before the weekend is over. Clears the air… Clogs the sinusses though… heh…
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Wow, that was definitely a sucky week! I’m sorry you’re going through all this! Hang in there…one day at a time and all that. Sorry…wish there was more I could do.
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Evil Genius: Thanks Hon, and I’ll live
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