This thing that I am posting about today has been festering inside of me for a while now. I first wasn’t going to say much about it, but I need to put it out there. If I don’t it’s gonna make me explode.
It’s funny, the things you find out, the things you encounter, the disappointments, when you are going thru difficult times, in any way. Wow, have I done so over the past months. And the trying times of the past months have come with one particular trait that I am not too fond off, which is the topic of today’s post: Bullshit. The amount of bullshit I’ve had to endure over the past months is ghastly. Is disgusting. Yes, I have. Been bullshitted. By people I love and people that I considered my friends.
I have a message for all of you, because I know that most of you read this blog. You know who you are.
I DO NOT DO BULLSHIT!
You have bullshitted me over big things. Bullshitted me over little things. I don’t care what you bullshit me about, I don’t care what your reason is to bullshit me, there is no explanation that will justify it. And I knów when I am being bullshitted. I have been married to a bullshitter for years and years. My bullshit-o-meter works flawlessly and it has been skyrocketing accompanied by sparks and smoke lately. The fact that I do not immediately call you out on your bullshit is not because I don’t notice that I am being bullshitted. It’s because I believe in giving people second chances. It’s because when I say I love you, I truly do love you. It’s because when I say I am your friend, I really am your friend. I say what I mean, and I mean what I say.
There is no reason to lie to me. And if for some reason you cannot tell me the truth yet, you might just choose to shut up instead of feeding me your bullshit all the time. If you feel you can’t be honest with me on anything, you might wanna reconsider if there really is a connection between us, and if you are doing that justice.
And most importantly of all: I think I did not deserve being bullshitted by you. At all. I deserve way better than that!
So, to all the bullshitters in my life: fuck off! Do not contact me again. I’d rather get down and roll myself around into some real bull-shit than waste any more of my love, my friendship, my energy and my time on you. I believe in the sanctity of love, of friendship, but also in the sanctity of loving myself and not losing myself in the process. I am done being upset and sad about people that do not deserve it. Love and friendship is about caring about each other, about being there for each other, about trusting each other, and -newsflash- NOT about bullshitting each other, at any time, for any reason, in any way.
There, I said it. I hope I got my point across…Y ‘all bullshitters can go now and start a bullshitting commune far far away from me and bullshit eachother. We’re done. To all my wonderful real life and bloggy friends and family: I LOVE YOU!!! And thank you so much for continuing to be there for me.
Damn Girl! I don’t show up for a couple of weeks and you go on the warpath..
Tell me ur size and I’ll send you a pair of Tony Llama cowboy boots. Yep, the original Shit-kickers!
john bs last blog post..(Dude’s) Got a SIG!
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February 23rd, 2009 at 11:01 AM
That would be a very modest size 8 1/2, darling. LOL
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*making mental note* don’t piss off DB!
:whack:
DaDucks last blog post..Musical Monday
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DaDuck: I don’t consider you to be one of the people that would bullshit me and piss me off
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All right I’ll cut the bullshit: I’m not even Canadian, eh.
LeSombres last blog post..3.14159265358979323846…
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LeSombre: I knew it!!! Belgian right?
*snort*
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Venting spree I see :) all good. Best to get it out there, else you might go on a kicking spree with your Dutchy boots (the red, pointy ones, not clogs, hehe). I don’t like bullshitters either, and I’ve dealt with them for a long time. Sadly, most of my friends in school were of that… breed.
Raches last blog post.."There’s a 7am? I’ve never seen a clock at 7am!"
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Rache: Yeah. I’ve met more than my share in my lifetime so far too…
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I hate it when people think you’re stupid and don’t see right through the bullshit.
xo
Finns last blog post..I’m On To Something Here–I Think
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Finn: Me too hate hate hate!!!
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That has got to feel better
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February 23rd, 2009 at 6:03 PM
Turnbaby: Ohw yeah it does ;-)
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Right on, sistah!
Ginger Magnolias last blog post..Ginger’s Got A Boyfriend
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February 23rd, 2009 at 6:04 PM
Ginger Magnolia: LOL Thanks girl!
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Can’t stand bullshit. Now, I understand that there are times when a small amount of it may creep in. But to be in a constant mode of spewing the BS, then that’s got to stop.
martymankinss last blog post..Snowy Sunday #14
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February 23rd, 2009 at 8:07 PM
marytmankins: Well, these ones are pathological bullshitters… Yup… definetely…
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Good for you for letting it out!
Tugs last blog post..Abandoned…
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February 23rd, 2009 at 8:24 PM
Tug: Yeah, feels great to do this.
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Didn’t we just declare a bullshit free zone?
Penelopes last blog post..2 down, 2 to go.
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Penelope: Hell Yeah woman! And everybody better remember that I am IN that zone! (and so are you!)
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I can smell bullshit from a mile away…and I’m nowhere near a farm!!
metalmoms last blog post..Monday Moaning-I Got Cut
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metalmom: Isn’t it funny though how the bullshitters never think we do….?
<- that’s them, not us… obviously
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I knew you weren’t full of bullshit because your eyes are blue. Good rant.
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it is wrong how hard i laughed at “bullshitting commune.” that was fucking priceless.
(on a totally different note, thanks for forcing me to take my antibiotics. feeling much better already. few more days and i will be good as new. xoxo)
hello haha narfs last blog post..Make a Difference Monday
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Yah, I don’t do bullshit either. At all. I’ve grown pretty honest about my feelings pretty quickly here in the city, and I don’t put up with people trying to give me any kind of story.
My general philosophy: Be honest. With yourself first, and with others second. I have way more respect for you when you are honest. I have zero respect for you when you’re not.
(And that goes for me not respecting myself when I’m not honest.)
Poppys last blog post..Kevin Smith wipes his ass with a baby wipe, just like me!
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HA! I could’ve written this very post what with all of the bullshit I’ve put up with in recent months. I absolutely agree 100% with Poppy’s philosophy. I respect people who have the courage to be up front and honest, rather than put forth a bunch of bullshit that causes drama I simply do not have the time or inclination to deal with.
I hope your life gets much less complicated and things start looking up for you very soon.
Gingers last blog post..Kate Winslet Wins!
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YEOW! I don’t know who did what to you, but hooray for speaking your mind. And I might add, you spoke it loudly!
The thing that pisses me off the most about BSers is they’re insulting the intelligence of whomever they’re attempting to BS. Know what I mean? Like, excuse me, but do you think I’m so fucking stupid I believe your load o’ shit??
*whew* I feel better now too.
janes last blog post..2/19/08
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I may bullshit but I doubt I would do it to the point of pissing you off:) I am considerate like that. however, I can get a litte snarky and sarcastic to the point of pissing people off. lol
Daducks last blog post..Musical Monday
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OMG, I hope I’m not ever on your list.
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metalmom: Farm bullshit smells a lot better than this kind, LOL
hello haha narf: Nah, not wrong and on the other thing “you are totally welcome”
Poppy: I totally agree with you
Ginger: Thanks, I am sure they will
Jane: Oh yeah, that completely enrages me too about this whole thing
DaDuck: I’ll make a mental note of that, LOL
Lynda: I am sure you will never be on that list
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