Over the past few days some MWCTMF (Men Who Call Themselves My Friend) have been firing off text messages and shit that are pissing me the hell off…
They are the kind of text messages that say “Hey! I just happen to be driving past your house” or the “I am in the mood for some excitement *wink*” kinda text messages. The ones that are sent to me past 10 or 11 p.m. The ones that mean that what they want is for me to say “Sure come over and fuck my brains out, why don’t you?”
These are men that I have ex.ten.si.ve.ly explained to that I am NOT in the market for anything just sexual or casual. That I’ve seen it, done it, been there and am done with it right now. I currently have no interest in being someone’s sex toy. To be someone’s “Wham! Bam! Thank You, Mam!“. And most importantly: that I mean what I say.
I am fine with people doing that stuff, the casual sex thing. God knows I have done it myself for the past 8 years, off and on. I don’t judge anyone, I don’t blame anyone for wanting that. Live and let live is my motto. I am just not into it right now. I am very clear about that to any man that decides to give it a try and I think that seeing as it is my body and my life, it’s pretty reasonable for me to want to make that decision myself. If I am not dating you, I am not fucking you.
I DO judge people (read: men) that like doing that stuff, but do NOT respect women when they tell them thèy don’t want to. It’s fine if you are a guy (or a girl) and you feel like having care-free sex. I am even fine with it if I initially turn out to be your “target”. I can appreciate the compliment (that is usually) in there. It is, however, NOT fine when I explain to you that I am not up for it and that I would appreciate if you would stop asking me. When I explain that if you continue to do so, you will piss me off. That I would be ok remaining friends, but only if you can keep your remarks, attempts and body parts to yourself. And that the decision on whether you can, and want, a friendship like that, is yours. And then when you decide that you do… you CONTINUOUSLY feel the need to disrespect me and piss me off this way.
And seriously… the 2 guys that are at it right now and both texted me last night, pissed me off, got a whiff of having pissed me off by the way I responded to their texts, and then got on my case about me being short tempered and no fun?
FUCK OFF!
Do not go out of your way to keep doing what I told you NOT to do. Do not keep disrespecting my wishes and then be pissed off when I tell you to go screw yourself.
* SIGH * men…
(not all men, I know, but these kinda men…)
* rolling eyes *
That would really piss me off too! Dumbasses!
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February 22nd, 2010 at 12:15 PM
OMG I get so incredibly pissed off about it. Especially the disrespect part of it all.
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You could have just told me privately and quietly. You didn’t need to shout it to the world! :nana:
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February 22nd, 2010 at 2:14 PM
Oh sorry, I forgot to make the post “private” and just send you the password? LOL
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I just wanted some anal. That hardly counts at all, right?
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February 22nd, 2010 at 2:42 PM
Oh yeah, true. Anal hardly counts…
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You and I, we’re in the same situation…but you already knew that. I got myself a phone call and a text just last night. Douchebags I tell you….douchebags and they’re all paddling the douche canoe!! Well, except for Brad…he’s not a douchebag, he’s just misunderstood! :cheers:
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February 22nd, 2010 at 2:42 PM
Yeah, douchebaggery is an international problem
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I can always count on WholeStoleMy Zen for anal. But she does it to me.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 2:57 PM
* SNORT *
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You are a fucktard magnet. I’m sure of it now.
Does “no” ever mean “no” to some men?
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February 22nd, 2010 at 4:13 PM
Oh God Yes, I SOOO am…
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Men are retarded, generally speaking. I’m not into the casual sex thing any more, either. Believe me, I wish I were. Getting laid would be simpler. But I’m at the age now where getting laid is secondary to having Someone.
And I’m in no rush for that, either. Mostly. ;)
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February 22nd, 2010 at 5:41 PM
Exactly my point!
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Don’t worry, I am holding down the fucktard magnet this end. My booty calls often include a naked knob shot just so they can show me what I’m missing!
And I thought European men would be more suave!
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February 22nd, 2010 at 5:42 PM
OMG Yes, I know about those shots. Blurgh! LOL And Ha! on European men… Nu Uh…
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“Naked Knob Shot” would be a great name for band.
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February 22nd, 2010 at 9:10 PM
It so would be! Can I do backing vocals?
:diva:
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February 22nd, 2010 at 9:10 PM
You know, with the swinging of the hips ‘n shit?
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It’s basically the same mentality that makes some men (and women, too) think that the rules don’t apply to them. Oh, I know you want to have sex with me, just not those other losers. I get really tired of hearing other men talk about it. The word “frigid” always comes up when they are turned down.
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February 23rd, 2010 at 11:23 AM
Can I just say “Sigh… why doesn’t that surprise me in the least”?
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Fuck them!
Well, not literally, of course.
:)
Guys are idiots.
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February 23rd, 2010 at 11:24 AM
Oh please not literally, LOL. And I hope not all guys are idiots. I’d like to believe not all of them are, in fact most of them aren’t. But THESE ones are… No doubt about it.
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The last time that happened to me, I told him to meet me at the sex motel by my house (aka The Hollywood Motel) naked on the bed…I would come see him in 20 mins with my surprise. What was the surprise? I wasn’t showing up…
I turned my phone ringer off and went to sleep. When I woke up, I had 10 voice mails asking “where the fuck are you?” and “I can’t believe you’re doing this to me, you bitch!”
Sucker. That’ll learn em’! This is why I will hold out for a relationship. My booty call days are done. :)
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February 23rd, 2010 at 11:25 AM
Do you know what? One of the 2 morons I am writing about I actually did a similar thing to at some point. Even that didn’t work. He resurfaced after a while. I guess in his case the dick is mightier than the brain.
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OK. Having been married since college, I had no idea that men act like college-aged douchenozzles. YIKES! You want I should put a hit on some of these guys?
Actually, you should send me their phone numbers. I’ll turn on the international option on my phone and send them a few suggestive text messages of my own. Hee hee! Torture!
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February 24th, 2010 at 7:26 PM
Oh HELL yes they do (some do, not all of them obviously, but I am apparently Queen of Attracting Fucktards for some reason)…
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